About Me
My name is Andrzej but you can call me Andrew. Born in Poland and living in the UK, London area for 20 years. A man in transformation, rebuilding from within, one layer at a time and leading others with true connection.
My journey is about integration of strength and softness, discipline and vulnerability, doing and being. I’ve stopped striving to become someone and started unlearning what I never needed to carry in the first place. I work with other men who are walking this path too. Not to fix them, but to be with them. To hold space. To heal together.
I help you connect body awareness with emotional, spiritual, and therapeutic insights, drawing on trauma-informed, gestalt and narrative therapy approaches.
My core values
Honesty
Connection
Openness
Responsibility
Ethics
Growth & Transformation
I believe emotional growth is leadership. That mental wellbeing isn’t a luxury, it’s the foundation, and that when we, as men, begin to show up whole, with our fear, our joy, our confusion, our hope, we create space for others to do the same.
This path isn’t linear. It’s messy, beautiful, and necessary. I don’t walk it perfectly. But I walk it with intention, and I offer what I’ve learned along the way to those who are ready to listen, share, or begin.
Someone once said to me:
“Your logical, disciplined mind, shaped by years in engineering, combined with your attunement, presence, and ability to truly listen, will make you a powerful mentor. You connect two different worlds.”
– Phao Sanato – A vocalist, multi-instrumentalist, and music producer.
I didn’t fully see it then. I do now.
What I can offer
Transformation & Growth
You don’t need to navigate the chaos alone. Whether you're feeling stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed by emotions, or carrying silent pain, I'm here for you. In our work together, you’ll start to reconnect with your inner clarity, reclaim your strength, and align your logic, emotions, and intuition. This is where transformation begins. Not by fixing yourself, but by deeply understanding who you already are.
Leadership Mentoring
Leadership can be lonely but it doesn’t have to be. If you're a CTO, VP, Director, Head of Engineering, or stepping into a bigger role, you know that technical expertise alone isn’t enough. You're expected to lead with clarity, navigate people’s emotions, manage uncertainty, and still deliver results. In our sessions, you'll gain the tools, reflections, and mindset to lead with authenticity, confidence, and calm... even when the pressure is on.
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A bit from the past
The first shift came in 2015 after reading Quiet. As a natural introvert, it was eye-opening to learn that how I think, feel, and recharge wasn’t broken, just different. Around 35% of people operate this way. That realisation sparked a deep dive into psychology, sociology, neuroscience, and beyond.
In 2019, therapy helped uncover the patterns and pain I’d been carrying. Then came the pandemic. I used to joke, “People will now realise they can’t stand their partners.” A few months later, my 18-year relationship ended… and a new chapter began.
2022 brought intense growth and a powerful, confronting relationship. Then in 2024, everything cracked open after a series of amazing and scary events. My heart broke and opened. I started connecting with peoplearound me in a way I never had. After a lifetime of close female friendships, I now count six men I’d trust with my life. That still surprises me.
It’s 2025 now. Life feels more alive, more complex, more honest, not easier, but definitely more real.
I also…
- I hold space — for men to drop the mask, speak truth, and reconnect with what’s real. Circles, workshops, late-night conversations that go deeper than the surface.
- I chase speed — not for escape, but for presence. Track days, lap times, a machine pushed to its limit because that’s how it was meant to be driven.
- I build — software, systems, experiences. Tools that work, scale, and serve. Mostly web, always with purpose.
- I frame — 13 years behind the lens, capturing motion, emotion, and machines for some of the world’s top automotive brands.
- I lead — high-performance engineering teams that deliver at scale. NVIDIA. Discovery Channel. Results that matter.
